Andymum Memories

Today after send Jayde back home…its about 2pm+ we went to East Coast cycling and walk walk and eat……relax relax…..

first we rent 2 sit one..and we cycling together…about 1 hour..return its…then we go to food court eat satay,gong gong and noodle..ice kachang….then Andy said he want to cycling again…the we rent one small one for him to cycling…and we walk slowly follow him…he so happy…and after food walk walk also good…..ya today not really hot…have wind…good whether….ya good time too…Andy said wanna come again next week…hhaaha……

Yesterday…Jayde come to my house overnight..ha ha without her mama Jasmine..because..Jasmine and her hubby went to fishing…tien mik mik…cos her hubby birthday lah…so i asked them can Jayde come to my house???hhahah.ya of course…hehe….but we worry she will cry at night…but lucky she was not cry…she can sleep her own at night when she feel tired…about 5am she said MAMA i want to drink milk…so my hubby make milk milk for her…then she sleep again….then about 7.30am she wake up..suddenly forget she was sleep at my house..ha ha…cry..and look for her mum…but i carry her…said mummy go fishing and now you are at mama house…remember???she said yes…then i said you good girl not cry..go back to sleep then….Papa will bought McDonald for her…she said OK ..good girl…then about 9am..i let her eat and let her shower…then she play with Andy..and its about 12pm+ my hubby bring her back home liau..haha..jayde very cute and good girl….

last two blog i was say regarding "friendship???"…after that i read comment from few friend..know from friendster and forum..ya..thanks…your concert…

actually i am not unhappy…with that… just feel something…in this few years….sometime feel tired…and ask myself really…still wanna keep doing this to keep in touch..???haha…my answer is..yes still..no matter how..just a email,sms…i will still doing….long long time one sms..i still can do it..cos I’m doing from the bottom of my heart..

Andy lau also say…until now..even though some of the friend make him upset and unhappy…now eventhough have new friends he still treat this friendship 100%….its  very touch me….when he care about Anita …etc…

so i always treat every friendship 100% too…even though last time have some friends upset me..cos this is unfair..with someone who really care with us….

Friends..just like a star….not always have..but its always there……i believe it..friends not always meet but we really care about each other…its true friends..

yesterday went to Cammy son birthday…this feeling go to me..ya ..we are seldom meet..but ..somehow we are care with each other…and when we meet we are so happy to treat each other…sometime even though just a smile and safety hand ….

today read about comment about few friends..ya really touch me……hope your also always happy and healthy…no matter up and down….life must go on and show must go on….

very happy…is that…this one years..i know some friends from forum…and we really become good friends….and also ….more important…i know one group of people…their are from high cooperate ,professional….house wife…and normally working people…many kind of people…but we are work together hand in hand .hearth to hearth..to get our goal and we are not politic at all…we are helping each other to became more good people and success….

especially my Mentors from hongkong..always come every month to sharing with us how to become better person and how to become good leader…..they are very humble and really true people…we can feel that…and can see that from their eyes..and hearth…..when each time they encouraged me and hubby …when he hold our hand and touch our shoulder…i can feel from the bottom of their heart..they never look down of people…they believe we can do it….and alway say…JOEY,U CAN DO IT…and always tell us…every person have their good point and their..strength..so down look down ourself…..from my job last time..my boss never say this thing to me……so I’m very appreciated that….and very very lucky..to know them…

me and hubby..now we have our goal…beside talk about son and family…and sport ha ha..we still have one more topic and one goal same goal to achieve..in our business.together with my son…so wonderfully…and happy….

some of my friend..they say how come you and hubby can always have topic to chat????me and hubby don have and get boring already…nothing to chat with..after so many years married…..i told them and sharing with them…..but but we still learning ….how to get our relationship even more better …than now….

this years January before new years…i went to hongkong intensive training…hur….first time i went..really surprises me..wah…70 to 80 % we learn from our mentors…was relationship..with family,hubby and wife,son,mother and inlaw…wah…business teach us like that???really really impress me….ya after hongkong trip i really change alot…and bring it to my family and business…and friends….really help…friends can see me CHANGE…without i notice…and we doing business in the happy way…and no stress….

this coming labor day…we are arrange karaoke at one my business partner house …cannot wait that day to come..hahah….

FRIENDS WHO CARE ABOUT ME DON WORRY ..IAM HAPPY AND GOOD HEARTH …WISH ALL OF YOU SAME WITH ME….

KANG ENG….ALL OF YOU…

28april 06 …was Jarvis ..cammy’s son bday…..we go to jurong east chevrons there celebrates his bday…3 years old now ..and he look more and more handsome now….and big boy now…..

we having a bbq too…but all cammy’s hubby bbq for us…must say thank you to him……we just eat haha…..paiseh..

so long never meet elaine,xiao,esparto,yentoo (..nic went to bkk..cannt see her sob sob….) so happy to see them….really because we are stay end to end hhaha seldom meet…not like cam,el,soh,nic..they can arrange meet regualrya and mahjong ..hah..

xiao"son very cute..keep smile with us…i believe another handsome boy.and xiao don look like after give birth….she so slim like before….can try another one.haha..

U see jayde and jarvis…tien mik mik…hahah….very cute …boyfriend and girlfriend dating ..haha…leong lai and maggie…tien mik mik…

ya we have a great time there..thanks cammy for the hospitality…….nice to meeting your parents ..and your MOTHER in law too..hahahah….

we must alsways meet up ya……don wait until one years then meet…muak muak….

elaine don worry i no posting your sexy pose here..ahahha…..

Friends….i always treat My friend and classmates are part of my life…..and i like to keep in touch with them with email and phone.but i found that friendship can forever ..is not just one way to keep in touch…always must two way..am i right??one hand we cannot crap we must use two hand to crap and have a sound come out……

Sometime i will feel tired….I’m the one who always email and sms and hp some of them…i always tell myself i must natural ,good heart….treat friends thought the heart. ..people will feel that…however…i will lose contract with my friends….from Indonesia..and Singapore too…My phone never change before..i always tell my hubby…if the friends really treat me like a friend and never forget me…how many years…they still can find me …because i never change my phone contact..even though my Indonesia home address and tel.

and some of my friend..when they have trouble and unhappy..and also no place to stay..i always open my house for them and open my heart to listen to them…and my hubby always help to settled their problem.."not money matter" and we never want them must reply us t….but somehow..they know we are doing business…and we also never look for them or what..because  ..we are doing leadership business..not buy n sell only..but they avoid…us…never mind…we accept what ever people do for us…and no angry because we know..they don’t understand what we are doing….

One gathering…when some of them see us come….they feel like not natural and when my hubby talk to them normal thing..one of them don want to answer…and my hubby try again..its about 10 time then she answer….and also very short and not happy face…but me and my hubby never get angry…cos its already 10 overs years friend….but a big disported…why she was like that….cos when she feel down and sad and problem ..we never say anything always stand by her….huzz….

But we are not regret….cos..it is YuenFeng" …..but i find one group of friends…they really care and concern about us…ya we appreciated that….and very "cheng xi"every friendship…..

BUSY IS JUST A REASON AND EXCUSES…WE MUST CONTROL THE TIME AND CANNOT LET TIME TO CONTROL OUR LIFE……….

WE MUST ALWAYS APPRECIATED PEOPLE GOOD TO US AND CANNOT TAKE ADVANTAGE …

ha ha..i always tell my hubby…is it because we are not rich ….hahah…joking..because i know some of my friend never look down of us….

actually people look down or not…we wear branded or not…i don’t care….as long as..i am not look down or myself…and i always stay happy and healthy….

after 1 years doing business.and sometime go to do volunteer work…i learned alot of thing..but…the most important thing ..is that…i really learn how to.  ..包容, 感恩….

Today…have Potluck gathering at my house….. friends from idobaby forum…some last min cannot make it…due to some house and work,BB matter…but all of us have a great time…we start about 1+ to almost 6+pm.all mama chit chat at the one corner..kids play at Andy boy room….all hubby go one corner.ha ha…..and sometime we join together too…..charmed bring her daughter BB come…she is very cute and..eyes very big…she is not scared of noisy…she enjoy her life…sleep and eat..ha ha…..and imkid son very handsome boy too…..he like his pillow…when he come in ..he wanna sleep ..but after see toys he wake up liau..haha……………Owen also very good boy…can see he love his sister alot…Andy was waiting for him whole morning..cos Andy still remember him..when last time go to BBQ gathering…they played until…very crazy….and Charmaine dear daughter was very cute….she like to see the mirror and like to smile…but she don let people carry her hahaha….but she like to smile with people…and when us play with her she keep smile and laugh……

Owen and Andy n im_kidz son…n Jayde..my goddaughter play together..i  don know what they play….hhaha…see the children like very happy…i wish I’m a kid too……………..

And i hope all mama don mind my small house.and also thanks the good food your bring and cook……hope all of you enjoy the time and gathering at my small house….see when we arrange again…..